We all know, and if you didn’t then you do now that I am a great believer in working on your mindset and not just your business.  Simply put mindset is how you view things, your perception of what’s going on.  The way you perceive your life is what makes you happy or unhappy, wealthy or broke. If negative assumptions or beliefs are consuming you, then chances of you being happy in your life are low. Cultivating a positive mindset, even when facing challenges, will allow you to experience happiness and live a more fulfilling life. It can be difficult to tell whether the negative thoughts are outside yourself or a part of your psyche. If we continue to have a fixed mindset and are unwilling to change, adapt or be flexible then chances are nothing around us will change either.  So if you look around and you don’t like what you see, or things could be better then its time to work on your mindset!

Here are four powerful signs that it’s time to change your mindset:

 

Sign #1 – You Are Constantly Focusing on What’s Wrong

If you’re always fixated on your disappointments and worries, and never thinking about the things that are going your way, this is a sign that your current mindset is overrun with negativity. While you may be experiencing difficult times, the odds are that there is at least one thing in your life that is good. Take the time to be thankful for the good things in your life to help the negativity from completely overwhelming your perspective.

 

Sign #2 – You Forget to Celebrate Your Victories

If you tend to gloss over your victories, and feel angry when you suffer a loss, then it’s time to change your mindset. If you fail to take the time to celebrate the moment when something goes your way, it’s because you subconsciously believe you don’t deserve the victory. This sends the negative message that you will always fail. It is essential to believe that you are capable of real victory.  No matter how small, hell maybe you even just survived a rough day with the kids and you only yelled once.  I’d say that’s a small victory.

 

Sign #3 – You Can’t Face the Truth

Complaining about your life is never going to change it. If you tend to complain about everything, it’s a sign you need a shift in your mindset. Relentlessly complaining is nothing more than a refusal to acknowledge and accept the truth. Take the time to change those things that you can and stop worrying about those that you can’t.

 

Sign #4 – You Constantly Disagree with Everyone

If you always disagree with the people around you, it’s a good sign that you might need to work on your mindset. This is especially true if you continually argue with those people that you trust and respect. Your arguments reflect more on you than on them.  Without getting too woo woo on you (but of course there’s never too much woo) this all comes down to the Law of Reflection mirroring back to you aspects of yourself which you don’t particularly like that need some improvement.

 

If any of these signs sound familiar, it’s time to let go of the negative thoughts and begin to change your mindset. Changing your mindset isn’t easy, but it is one of the most powerful things that you can do for yourself.  And of course we are here to support you from the sidelines the whole way here at Millionista Moms.

 

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